Cutting
or self injury can indicate that somewhere a person hasn't
found good ways of coping with overwhelming feelings or
stress. They’re not sick or insane; they just have
a limited reserve of positive ways to deal with feelings
and emotions for various reasons. Positive coping skills
can be learned at any point in life. People who are caught
up with cutting can learn to use new and healthier coping
strategies. At the time of cutting it may feel like this
is a helpful way of dealing with feelings or issues.
If your friend or teenager is cutting that can be a scary
discovery. Don’t panic!
Cutting may have control over a person and be able to get
them thinking and acting in ways that are not helpful. Cutting
can be eradicated with help. If we can change our thinking
and ways of acting we can take control away from cutting
and have a life with out cutting being present.
Talk with a counsellor. If you have a friend or teenager
in the clutches of cutting talk with a counsellor and help
be part of a team to eradicate cutting’s power.